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I've always had high expectations, whether because they were placed on me (I am an eldest daughter), or I placed them on myself. What can I say? I have high standards. Until one day I realized how often I was burning out--and it was pretty frequently.
After pouring so much of myself into work and school, my relationships with my partner, family, and friends suffered. I felt like I didn't have much free-time to cultivate friendships or spend time with my family, and that I couldn't afford to not be putting so much time and effort into school and building a career. I didn't have any hobbies, and my answer to "what do you like to do?" always revolved around my career or what I was working on. Don't get me wrong, I love being career-driven. However, not only was it costing me my relationships (especially the one WITH myself), but it was affecting my health.
I noticed I would get sick every few months, and have days where I dreaded getting out of bed. When I would wake up for the day, I felt immediate anxiety of what had to be accomplished or checked off the "to-do" list. I pushed myself to be so productive. I set deadlines for myself to achieve certain milestones to the point where when I achieved the goal, I didn't enjoy it. My life became constant, relentless striving, working so much because it masked my immense feelings of insecurity in who I am if I'm not "doing" big things out in the world.
At Kindred Souls Collaborative Psychotherapy, we believe in a collaborative approach to therapy. We work with our clients to create a safe and supportive environment where they can explore their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Our goal is to help our clients develop the tools and skills they need to manage life's challenges and achieve their goals. We offer individual and couples therapy, as well as group therapy and workshops.
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